There will be those of you who wish to argue with me as you're spending too many hours of your time online trying to contact people to date.
Who are these people? Some of them are nice people others are not and worse your chances of meeting bad people are at 40%. The fact of the matter is that online dating doesn't work for 88% of the people who use it. Men please remember this, technology has changed woman have not.
No man should be under any illusion that, woman are running right out the door to meet them from online dating sites. Woman, are security conscious. Most woman, are not going anywhere until they feel comfortable with you and feel safe after checking you out. I know that many men are frustrated with typing until their fingers fall off.
This is just one reason why you're frustrated and online dating doesn't work. The less serious game player in dating these days surfs the online sites looking for people to meet. Most of these people don't have any serious relationship goals in mind.
You know everyone said they are honest, straightforward, trustworthy people whose photo always looks like they do in person, right, sorry 40% of the time they are deceptive or fraudulent.
Game playing with your emotions is easy online because these sites were set up as candy stores.The environment your in is casino like. It is like pulling the lever on a slot machine. Sometimes by accident you win. So the gambler type is the one who enjoys online dating. 12% of you win 88%of you lose 40% of you meet the following.
- Seriously psychologically disturbed people.
- con men and con woman
- Gold diggers are after your money.
- married people
- Abusive people
- Sex offenders
- People who misrepresent themselves lying about appearance, age and status.
So if you like the 8 types listed then keep dating your computer mouse.
There also dens for players and commitment phobias. It can be scary. Authenticity is paramount in feeling good about meeting strangers. Allot of times online you meet crude, inappropriately dressed misfits. I give you this information from all the singles I talk to about this, they came to me because they are tired of dating there computer mouse and being deceived, lied to and ignored.
Desperate, whining, maladjusted people make up 40% of those people on dating websites. This sets you up to fail 4 out of 10 times you meet someone or much worse, just ask women who were sexually assaulted or bilked out of there life savings by online predators or wealthy men who were used and taken in nasty divorce settlements from go diggers that preyed on them.
Online dating sites allow you to mask your identity, they don't do background checks or meet you in person to identify you. They just give you a picture and a short profile. These profiles don't do enough to judge compatibility they allow this to become a gamble.
Remember this is just like the casino, just like spinning the roulette wheel.
There are further problems with online dating. A person realizes they are not desirable so they make themselves look desirable. The internet can be Fantasy Island to the delusional.Many people worry that they are unacceptable, so they lie and embellish delusions of grandeur. It can't be maintained for long if you're dealing with all of this, furthermore it becomes exhausting and full of dissatisfaction. All of what I have said here is perpetuated in cyber space.
There are also marriage scams like Russian brides and brides from Asian countries or eastern Europe, desperate woman who will marry you sight unseen until they get here and they divorce you and take you for everything you have, much worse there are some woman who just ask you to send them money to come here and they abscond with the funds wired to them.So guys if Natasha is telling you she loves you in 2 weeks beware.
Let's talk about business issues with online dating sites. Harmony, satisfaction and results are severely lacking here. Customer satisfaction is low. Customers want misrepresentation to be addressed.
It isn't being addressed, it's being ignored. They don't want to do the work to find out who is on there site. There is no Gate Keeper anyone with a credit card gets admission. By the way do you think that it is inexpensive? Just add up what you pay between $ 9.95- $59.95 per month what do you get, just space rental and you do the work, Sbobet add it all up and how many good people did you meet for what you paid?
Then there is non existent customer service, they don't address complaints. Automatic re billing of credit cards without your authorization they should be prosecuted for doing that, yet they get away with it and you have to cancel your credit card to get away from them.
Then your expectations are dashed on the rocks when you meet the misrepresented or worse. These companies think they know you and are not feedback oriented. There is no one to call to talk to.
These sites serve no functional purpose. It is practical to be able to converse and have your wishes be considered in matchmaking.